You CANNOT control what goes on around and outside of you, right?

You CAN however, control what goes on inside of YOU

HOW DO WE INTERNALISE OUR REALITY?

Each person believes themselves to have the facts, and yet we all differ.

Every brain has the same neurological wiring, inside of the womb you experience your first feeling, it is only once you start learning to talk, do you then place a label on your emotion. These feelings we experience in the womb have a direct effect on how we internalise the world around us. From the moment you are born, you and your environment begin to program it so that it is unique to you alone. There is no other brain in the world like yours.

Like computers, our brains have an operating system or a systematic patterned way of processesing external sensory information. Instead of having similar software programs, we each make up our own though our life experiences. Every moment throughout the day, we have a tremendous amount of information bombarding our neurology. This information is filtered through our RAS which is our Values, Beliefs, Attitudes, Language, Memories, Decisions and by the central nervous system allowing only a limited amount of information to reach our conscious attention. Our concsious attention then internalises this chunked down information, it affects our “State” in either a positve or a negative way. Our “State” then affects our physiology which lands up being our actions, reaction and decisions in life or a particular moment in time.

Did you Know? Every neuron contains a gestalt imprint of emotions and beliefs.

Every feeling that you have (whether you have felt it consciously or not) have experienced, has been experienced by an ancestor and it is programmed in the biological cellular make-up.

The longer the Gestalt emotion or belief, the more difficult to control. We eliminate that control over the belief or emotion and it will allow you to STOP reliving your Past over and over, every day, perpetuating the cycle that keeps you stagnant. If every day is an opportunity paint a new canvas, yet you continue to repeat yesterday’s failures?

Just for a minute… Imagine discovering and tapping into your true personal power? Where you take control and live a life without discontent, fear and limitations ~ even in these uncertain times?

 

Connect to that Inner Purpose and become a flourishing and emotionally healthy spouse, parent, or business owner by resolving the buried emotional trauma that hinders you from showing up as the greatest version of yourself in your life, relationships, parenting, and profession.

Self-limiting past conditioning and programming or In Utero trauma IS the thing that IS restricting you from living the most authentic life, a Life you dream of!

This is where all our stories begin! The FIRST emotion feeling is “In Utero” (a non-verbal impression imprinted in our neurological system)!

… Pre-Conceptual, In Utero, Newborn Memories & Early-Life Events SHAPE YOUR Adult Hormone Stress Responses including Your Future Health, Wealth & Resilience?

“Elevated levels of cortisol, or foetal distress impacts the architecture of the child’s developing brain, changing its size, shape, structure and organisation, as well as impacting on the neurological system.”

Genetics and Epigenetics of The Stress Response

Early-life adversities have been implicated in the occurrence of neuropsychiatric conditions, such as, Post- traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anger, depression, psychosis, mood- and anxiety-related disorders. It is an individual’s genetic and epigenetic profile that renders the person resilient or at risk for developing a stress-related disorder, this because the expecting mothers body, DOES NOT perceive the foetus or unborn child as an independent organism. It is in that context that the foetus or an unborn child is directly connected and is part of the mothers neurological system via the placenta until birth.

The unborn child experiences all the FEELINGS and SENSATIONS of the mothers neurological network but the foetus cannot yet put words to the FEELINGS it feels.

These feelings of Stress, Depression, Anger, Disappointment experienced by the mother leads to elevated levels of the stress hormone cortisol in her body, which is then passed onto her unborn child via the placenta, and creates heightened brain activity in the foetus, which can have a significant and sometimes lifelong implications, as it alters the expression of mitochondrial proteins in the placenta.

In Utero non-verbal impression imprinted in our neurological system has a MUCH greater impact on the nervous system than stressful exposures during our adult lives. This is where our SUPPRESSION, REPRESSION and LIMITATIONS are set in motion – In Utero, in the womb!

That very FIRST EMOTIONAL experience is in the womb ~ This WILL determine how we respond and react to the world around us, sometimes with life-long consequences!

This HAS a direct affect on your EMOTIONAL RESILLIENCE

 

How theTRANSFORMATIONAL COACHING programs work

Neuroplasticity and Neurogenesis is perhaps the most ground-breaking and revolutionary finding currently in modern neuroscience. Neuroplasticity refers to the ability of the adult brain to generate and integrate new brain cells (neurons), and remodel pre-existing neural circuits throughout the lifespan. Neuroplasticity facilitates changes in three major domains that are critical to high performance: thinking (beliefs and attitudes), emotions (mindfulness and resilience), behavior (new healthy habits).

Your brain is constantly rewiring itself. Not only does it change from one day to the next, it changes from moment to moment. This ongoing change process creates opportunities for coaches to support clients in practicing new ways of thinking, living and being that lead to greater success in virtually every realm: interpersonal, emotional, cognitive, and physiological.

Coaching positively impacts the brain. The brain-states and physical states experienced by clients during coaching, make temporary positive changes in the clients’ neural nets (a group of neurons that are wired together). When these changes are generated consistently through coaching, they become sustainable and relatively enduring. Coaching has the capacity to shift clients into the most productive and impactful states, such that clients literally become happier, more successful, and even healthier as a result.

Insights (AKA “aha” moments) create sudden changes in the brain. When new information is integrated, or old information is finally bridged, feel-good neural chemicals are released. Some insights are powerful enough to create lasting change immediately, while others require ongoing support. Coaching capitalizes on these moments of powerful brain activity by formulating action plans that carry the “aha” moment forward and providing ongoing accountability to drive lasting change.

Neural loops cause psychological paralysis. When we ruminate over a problem without seeking a solution, we are actually strengthening the neural connections around the problem, making it seem increasingly impossible to solve. It’s like riding a bicycle on a muddy path each day: eventually a rut will form that is so deep it’s almost impossible to ride the bike anywhere but in the ever-deepening rut. Coaching helps generate new neural connections by illuminating alternative pathways and shifting clients into proactive, solution-focused thinking.

The human brain has a negativity bias. As a response to the ancient fight or flight instinct, the brain has a natural tendency to hunt for the negative. Today, this mechanism often does more harm than good, leading to rumination which is highly correlated with anxiety and depression, drug dependancy, anger, stress, burnout, financial debt, self worth. Coaching supports individuals in cultivating greater mindfulness around this pattern and offers tangible tools for practicing increased optimism.

Through neuroplasticity and other tested and proven exercises, goal setting, action planning, accountability, we can assist and help you integrate, grow, and transform your life!

 

Have you had a Life or Periods of Resistance or Restriction ~ Leaving you Needing or Wanting?

• Personal Growth – Who, What, Why, Where am I
• Freedom from Inner conflict
• Redefine your Relationships and Intimacy
• Release Stress & Anxiety once and for all
• Resolving any Trauma (Sexual, Physical, Incest)
• Assistance With any Anxiety Problems or Disorders
• Reprogramming of The Self Image
• Resolving Low Self Esteem Problems
• Boosting Personal Perception About Self
• Boosting Current Self Love To Unconditional Love For Self
• Financial Freedom
• Anger Management
• Be in control of your emotions
• Defeat Depression and FEEL again
• Stress Management
• Understand and be able to control your emotions, not the other way around
• Motivation, Confidence & Energy
• Letting Go of Limiting Beliefs
• Deleting Negative Beliefs
• Freedom from Alcohol or drug addiction
• Getting Direction and Mentorship
• Health, Ageing gracefully, Change of Lifestyle or Self Care
• Family and Parenting
• Stop Procrastination
• Letting Go of any Phobias

Understand why you’re not where you want to be, and I will help you to get there and stay there.

We examine lifestyle, relationships, daily routine, and patterns, blockages and constraints. We identify, your signature strengths, learn how to cultivate and live from those strengths, and systematically transform how you show up with greater well-being, happiness and abundance in your life.

Discover how to direct your energy in a strategic way to redesign your life and make your life goals, dreams and desires a reality.

Your NEW LIFE will allow you to….

Eliminate the non-verbal impression imprinted in your neurological system

• Co-create healthy relationships and partnerships
• Live with purpose
• Manifest financial freedom faster
• Get that Job, Start a business
• Trust and act on your intuition
• See and understand your behaviors and patterns
• Experience more love and peace
• Set boundaries that honor you
• Have more self-confidence, clarity, and vision
• Free yourself from all Limitations
• Have the courage to follow your desires and dreams
• Create abundance in all areas of your life
• Love and treat yourself with respect
• Create long-lasting relationships filled with love, understanding, and passion

I am passionate about your RAPID TRANSFORMATION actualizing your RESULTS

Together we will

Reframe It, so you can LOVE IT,

Shift it, for you to LIVE IT,

Restore it, so you can BE IT

 

coachMercia (ICR®)

🌟 Self-Image Transformation Mindset Coach  🌟 Transformation Coach 🌟 Life Coach 🌟 Negative Emotional Therapy™ 🌟

🌟 Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) 🌟 Negative Belief Therapy™ 🌟 Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Practitioner 🌟

🌟 Past Life Regression (PLR) Therapy 🌟 Biofield & Sound Therapy Facilitator 🌟

🌟  Keylonta Karmic Repatterning™ Facilitator  🌟

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